If a person talks about someone behind their back, even though he didn’t mention their name but it’s known that he is talking about that person, this is backbiting!
It has been said, the one who backbites will have his good deeds cancelled!
Others have said that the one who backbites and repents will be the last to enter Jannah and the one who didn’t repent will be from the first to enter the fire.
- A man came to Ibn al Jawzi (rh) and said, I want to divorce my wife, I’m tired of her and so on. Ibn Jawzi (rh) replied, you need to sit somewhere quiet and repent to Allah.
- When they thought about fighting Hajjaj, the tyrant, they said, you have been given Hajjaj as a punishment from Allah and if you fight this one, Allah has many many Hajjajs.
- A man was sworn at so he repented to Allah for whatever he had done to be sworn at.
What We Learn from These Stories:
- Always repent if something goes wrong.
- Always blame yourself and not others.
- Don’t ever think you’re free of doing bad things. We have all sinned in our lives so when something bad happens to us, don’t begin to ask why. Just because we forgot about the sin and didn’t repent for it doesn’t mean Allah forgot!
أواب حفيظ – Those that repent often is mentioned in the Qur’an. Some of the people of the past mentioned it’s a person who remembers his sins when he is by himself and seeks forgiveness. They are the people that will be told BY Allah:
ادْخُلُوهَا بِسَلَامٍ ذَٰلِكَ يَوْمُ الْخُلُودِ
“Enter you therein in peace and security; this is a Day of eternal life!”
May Allah make us from them.
Never give up hope in the Mercy of Allah no matter what sin you’ve committed. All He wants is for you to repent! We all make mistakes!
Du’a of Yunus (as)
“No Muslim recites this du’a concerning any matter but Allaah will answer him.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi and classed as saheeh in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 3383.
So use the du’a of Yunus (as) in your sujood in optional prayers.
The benefits of doing a lot of istighfar:
Ibn Abbas (May Allah be pleased with them) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said,
“If anyone constantly seeks pardon (from Allah), Allah will appoint for him a way out of every distress and a relief from every anxiety, and will provide sustenance for him from where he expects not.” [Abu Dawud].
In another Hadith, Abdullah bin Abbas (May Allah be pleased with them) narrates that Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) said:
“The one who (regularly) says Istighfaar, that is, frequently repent to Allah Ta’aala for sins committed, Allah Azza Wa-Jal will open a path from poverty and difficulties. All sorrow and hardship will be removed, and in its place prosperity and contentment granted. One will receive sustenance from unimagined and unexpected sources.”
Remember to have some time everyday to yourself to repent and reflect as this was from the way of the Prophet (saw) as he did in Mount Hira and the way of the people of the past and the scholars until our times!
Try to shed tears for Allah for all the good you’ve missed out on, the sins you’ve done and the journey into the next life!
One who commits a sin needs to:
- Stop the sin
- Regret the sin
- Vow to never do the sin again
- Ask Allah for His forgiveness
- Do it with sincerity
- Must be done before the rattle of death.